I fear you are correct. Fuck my life.
Anecdotally, I grew up in one of Long Island's bigger lacrosse towns, and we usually send anywhere from 7-15 kids to D-1 lacrosse teams each year. It's a pretty Catholic town where you used to see ND hats and shirts regularly, but I don't think we've sent a kid to ND for lacrosse since the 90s. Sadly, we already have two committed to Michigan next season.