island about half way down the North Carolina coast. The beaches are great but the water will be cold that time of year.
The island runs east to west. The east end is Fort Macon State Park, which has history going back to colonial times and some Civil War tie-ins. Lee did some of the engineering.
Moving west from there is Atlantic Beach. Touristy but not overblown yet. From AB going west, it's really laid back until you get to Emerald Isle at the west end. Very touristy with a water park, fishing pier, all that stuff.
There are good restaurants all along the island but most are in AB or EI. Many will not be open during the spring break timeframe.
Water is the dominant theme. The Atlantic is the south side of the island, Bogue Sound is the north side. Again, not sure how much will be open but fishing includes surf casting, fishing piers, and charter boats. There are all kinds of related "stuff" including jet skis, paddle boards, kayaks, and boats for rent.
Other things in the immediate area (i.e., on and off the island) include nature hiking trails, one of the North Carolina Aquariums (very nice), Civil War type history, golf courses including one on the eastern part of the island near AB, and nautical "stuff" such as a small museum and a lighthouse that one can tour. And shopping, of course.
Spring break time of year, there should be vacancies in houses, condos, and hotels but "should be" and "are" are different terms. Hurricane damage in the area has had a major impact on what's available.
Our condo there is probably too small for your family (2 bedrooms) and tied up pretty much through the spring break time period anyway. That said, I can refer you to our rental agents as they handle a lot of other properties. If you're interested, email at the link above.