In reply to: How does a kid make his county travel soccer team but decide posted by Steelhop
Every coach in the world agrees that a player should be a multi-sport athlete.
IN THEORY
When it comes to their sport and their season, many generally don't put that concept into play.
At my soccer club, we encourage and allow multi-sport athletes. We have boys who play lacrosse, ice hockey, and tennis. We are a "soccer second" kind of team despite the fact that we are pretty good (and would possibly be great if we implemented a policy of intolerance to other sports).
Our left midfielder plays hockey for a club here in Chicagoland (he's fifteen years old, so we aren't talking about U8 hockey) and he's not allowed to miss a practice or a game without losing playing time. So maybe hockey is organized higher up to allow for multi-sport, but it is not at the local level.
This was doubly true for high school sports. Practice five days a week at varying times so you can't plan anything. My son's lacrosse coach said "absences from practice are unexcused if the result of homework or a test:" and, of course, unexcused absences cost you playing time. This is after getting up at 6:30 for 1.5 hours of "off-season" not mandatory (but surely mandatory) high school soccer practice, a full day of school, two hours before dinner and a lacrosse practice that goes from 6-8pm - and we go to a school where it takes about 25 minutes to get to and from. Hey, don't worry about it - manage your time better!
Compete in 2 sports.
But I'd have big problem if a coach "punished" my kid for missing off season workouts while they were in a competitive season for another sport.
they never say the kid will be punished. They just strongly imply it.