In reply to: A Few thoughts. Apologies for it being long posted by wpkirish
affirmative action if it really were just a gentle thumb on the scale for the the deserving second kid in your example, but I don't at all think that is how it is implemented. The reality is colleges would rather have a wealthy, highly resourced black kid with a 1250 SAT than a poor Asian kid with a 1500.
Also, I've been involved with some minority-focused recruitment programs at law schools, and on more than a few occasions I've been shocked at how poor the undergrad transcripts are for some kids at top 30 law schools.
I anticipate the second student would be much more resilient.
On a related note does anyone have info on the rate of use of psychoactive medications on campuses such as notre dame? I include such meds as SSRIs and their like, stimulants, anti psychotics, etc. I've heard it's way up, I'm just curious how high. I tried to find info on that but did not find it.
Personally, I think this insistence on nearing perfection and "failure is not an option" is creating a neurotic bunch. Upper middle class seems generally consumed with worry their children will end up in a lower strata, thus creating an arms race. Of course, employers find the neuroticism useful.
It’s not making decisions based solely on pure merit and resume
I think evaluating for true socioeconomic diversity is a much better way, not least because it's a way to really tap into unrealized talent.
However, it would really cut into tuition reimbursement, so that too is a nonstandard
Besides, I could see some parents finding a way to game that as well.