Sorry, but this isn’t normal and he needs to move on

This is out of a bad porn movie.

It’s not like she got drunk and made a huge mistake and is begging for forgiveness. Then you can go to counseling and hopefully he can find forgiveness. This sounds like, yeah I did it, but I was in my right because of some made up BS rule. What happens if she goes to Vegas, or bangs a former bf (where she thinks it doesn’t count if you already had sex with the guy), or meets a celebrity in her top 20, or bangs a guy in a different zip code. Oh it’s all ok because of some rule she believed when she was 16. I don’t see how he could ever forgive her.
And as others have mentioned did her other friends know? For the rest of his life he will not only know that his wife cheated on him with a stripper but everyone else will know now too, it’s not just their secret to worry about. I also wonder why the stripper? Was it a midlife crisis decision, did she always think she could get a better looking guy and this proves it, so she looks down upon her husband? That won’t last. Just way too many questions and disturbing morals and thoughts for me to want to stay with this woman if I were him.

Did she bang the stripper in front of everyone? The other girls get involved? What type of porn are we looking at here?