well, then you need to call Tim Grunhard asap

because he used to a high school HC and then an assistant coach in the KC metro area. He specifically told a kid that he'd be a poor fit for ND and listed out all the reasons. That kid ended up at Oklahoma (playing for Bob Stoops, who people on this board would love to coach at ND...me included despite missing some fire in the belly)

He said this on the radio.

Interestingly enough, that same high school has two kids playing for ND right now. Different kids and different schools are fits for each other...and they aren't. A hs coach SHOULD be watching out for the player and not allowing the kid to make a mistake.